husnu zhon means having good thoughts (about others)
in Islam, we are taught to have good thoughts on others, for we do not know what really happened. so we wouldn't be so judgmental about others. for example, when you see some young teenage girl got pregnant, and you will be thinking that, "oh, this girl must've been sleeping around!" but it may not be true! she might got raped. get it?
something like that.
or the saying that goes "don't judge a book by its cover" applies in the context of husnu zhon as well.
it's not easy, but we have to give it a try. the moment you have bad thoughts (su-u zhon) it will immediately effect your heart. you will think you are better than others (takabbur) and feels so good about it! (riak) nauuzubillah min zalik!
husnu zhon is good. it purifies the heart in a way and gives you the positivity of life. you wouldn't feel down or anything. seeing things in the brighter side is nice!
yang sebenarnya kenapa post ini ditulis sebab sya ada masalah husnu zhon. it's really really hard when you know that person inside out, baik buruk perangainya. dan apabila dengan kita sahaja, dia nampak begitu jahilliyah yang pekat, apabila dia bersama orang luar, dia menunjukkan perkara-perkara yang baik. tell me how I want to control my bad thoughts?
susah sangat. susah sangat nak percaya kat dia. rasa tak fair, bila certain things dia sibuk perbetulkan tindakan kita (which is bagus la actually) tapi certain things, dia yang ke arah jahiliyyah teruk.
this is indeed the worst feeling ever.
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